A New Boyfriend Or Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

November 4, 2008 | By Candice | In Advice, Breakup, Relationship 

Dear Candice,

At first I thought it was okay to end the relationship with my boyfriend. In fact, I told him that it is totally over between the two of us. Told him i fell out of love, that I don’t have goose bumps anymore when I’m with him. So, he left. I then, go clubbing and bar hopping, hoping to meet someone else. But I still can’t stop thinking about my ex. I hate the fact that i might have been able to prevent this. But I’m also worried, what if we get back together, will I find the feeling that I am looking for? And at this point, can I sill take him back and how?  - Sarah (Ohio, USA)

Dear Sarah,

There’s a big difference between getting a new boyfriend and getting your ex boyfriend back. I understand that you are totally torn between these two options. But your answer should play an enormous role in what you decide to do in the aftermath of a break up.

Getting a first date with a guy is slightly different than getting your ex boyfriend back. There’s tension and familiarity, it’s a whole different ball game. And getting an ex boyfriend back in your life calls for a different approach than what you might need to attract the attention of a new boyfriend.

If you want someone new in your life, going clubbing is somewhat a good way to move on and to look for “that feeling”, as you would say, and meet a special someone. If, on the other hand, you want your ex boyfriend back, you should probably take a more specialized approach.

To answer your question if you can take your boyfriend back… yes you can. There’s no hopeless case when it comes to getting your man back. However, you need to be certain on what you want to do and do something about it. So, if in this case, you really want your ex boyfriend back then I recommend that you should learn about certain techniques that are designed to deal with that specific situation.

These techniques is readily available for you or for anyone who wants to get their man back. There are some very powerful, insightful and informative guides out there that can help you to learn the exact things you need to do to get your ex back at your side. If you learn a few new “tricks” and follow these blueprints for success, you can absolutely get your man back in just a flash.

On the other hand, if you try to get your ex back based on your hunches, uncertain advice and a “fly by night” mindset of yours, it’s going to be very tough to win him back. In fact, it might be next to impossible. There really is a need for a strategy that has been carefully tailored to handle the unique circumstances present in the wake of a break up. Now, Let me ask you. Do you want a new boyfriend or do you specifically want your ex back?

If you and your heart are set to bring your ex boyfriend back, make an effort to know how you should proceed and learn some of the nuances of the situation in order to maximize your chances of rebound relationship. You can certainly get your ex boyfriend back, but it’s much easier if you’re using the right approach!

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One Response to “A New Boyfriend Or Your Ex Boyfriend Back?”

  1. nive on March 29th, 2009 4:27 am

    my boyfriend is trying to avoid me,that i can feel from his behaviour and i know that he had lost his interest for me but i cannot leave him and my love for him is very true .i want him can you please help me how can i make him understand my love?

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