All You Need Is Love – And A Good Approach To Get Your Ex Back

October 26, 2008 | By Candice | In Advice, Breakup, Relationship 

Dear Candice,

I’ve had this relationship with this guy for about a month. He was so cool and we talked about almost everything. We had so much fun together, but then he dumped me. We still talk sometimes. But i still really like him he is like the most amazing guy i know. But he really hurt me. I’ve tried to move on but haven’t had much luck getting over him. I really want to bring the old times back and even more get him back into my life. How can i take him back? All i need is to show him my love, right? I hope. – Hannah, 18 (Tucson, AZ)

Dear Hannah,

You said, all you need is love. Such a nice sentiment and it might be a relatively accurate descriptor of what we really need to make the world a better and sound place. However, for you to get your ex back… love isn’t the only thing you’ll need. To get your ex back, all you need is love… and a good approach.

There are a lot of hopeless romantics out there, I’m not saying you are one of them… i just want to draw on some point. They believe that love always find a way. They really have a faith in the power of love to conquer all. They think that if a relationship is worthy of participation it will naturally rebound after a break up.

Very optimistic, right? That kind of optimism in the power of the heart is amazing. Anyhow, it’s also sort of silly. I totally agree that love can find a way, but someone has to give it a map. I also believe that love might be able to conquer all, but it needs a little help along the way. If you really want your ex boyfriend back and are currently just hoping that things will work out for the best, it’s time to reconsider your view.

It seems that you know what you want to do with your relationship. You are on the right track Hannah. It is true that if you know in your heart that the you and your ex boyfriend should take a second chance with one another, you have an obligation to take action. If you believe in the relationship, you really can’t leave it all up to fate or chance. Love is too worthy that it is not enough to just hope for the things to get better. You have the power to actually revive the relationship.

All you need is love and a good approach. Love is an indispensable ingredient to getting your ex back in your life. A good approach will help you go along with it. You need a good plan that you really can implement. No doubt that you already have the willingness to act to all of that positive thinking and concept in love. But once you add a plan, you’ll create an unstoppable force. A force that surely won’t rest until you get your man back.

Not all people think like you Hannah. Some people may be reluctant to this idea, because of fear and insecurity. Going back to your story… don’t be hopeful, be certain instead. Certain on the things that you want to happen to your relationship. There’s no room for singing “que sera, sera”… have the courage to stand up for something in which you really believe. If you believe in your relationship, take action and get him back as soon as you possibly can.

Put yourself in front of smart guide that will provide you with a blueprint to rebuilding your relationship and then take action. That’s the best way to honor love and it’s the best way to get your ex boyfriend back, too. If you want to get your ex back, don’t be a wishful thinker. Be equipped with all the love… and a good approach.

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2 Responses to “All You Need Is Love – And A Good Approach To Get Your Ex Back”

  1. sarah on January 10th, 2010 11:37 pm

    Dear candice,
    I need you help! I have been in a long distance relationship for about 2 1/2 years. We usually get to see eachother every month for at least a week. He is my absolute everything and better than “the perfect guy” I had made up for myself because he was real. On christmas he had said that he was going to marry me and about 3 months ago we looked at rings. He has said all sorts of things such as if I broke up with him, he probably couldn’t go on with life and he could never be with another girl. I could go on and on with statements like that. Anyway, so then five days later (on my birthday) he broke up with me and I was I was supposed to see him the next day. I later found out from his mom he went to a party and he would keep ignoring me. Seven days later I find out that he already has another gf! How can he go from loving me and wanting to marry me, then 8 days later, he has a gf? I want him back so bad but I feel like I can’t get him back with me being in Ut and him in ID with a girl that he can see everyday. He said that he couldn’t handle me anymore but he still loved me but he KNOWS we aren’t meant for each other. Then I did the stupid begging. I don’t know what to do.

  2. Candice on January 13th, 2010 5:56 pm

    Hi Sarah: Thanks for sharing, I hope this post can help you http://getexbackmagic.com/moving-on-after-a-break-up

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