Does Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back? How Can You Tell?

Dear Candice,

I’m not pleased with my recent break up with my ex and I’m totally convinced right not that the two of us should give it another chance. But I don’t want to do it without knowing his take on this. How can I tell if he wants me back? Andrea

Dear Andrea,

There are actually three different answers to your question. Believe it or not, all of them are true at the same time.

You can’t be sure of what your ex boyfriend’s intentions are. There are some ways that we can read people pretty well and if he’s doing some really obvious things to show his interests, you might be able to figure it out. However, in most cases, there’s no definite way to know whether he would buy the idea of taking a second chance on your relationship or not. Here’s the bottom-line… Does your ex want you back? You can’t tell. Unless, of course, he’s come right out and said that he wants you. And if he did, why are you still reading this post?

Here’s definitely a head-spinner one! On some level it just doesn’t matter whether he wants you back right now or not. The only thing that matters the most here is your desire to get your ex back and to rebuild your relationship. The truth is… his current attitude won’t really affect you odds to get him back. If your heart is telling you to make things work and if you’re completely committed to getting back together, it’s your obligation to take action. Start planning for a smart action to get him on the side of a second chance. So, does your ex want me back? It really doesn’t matter.

Your ex boyfriend may or may not be interested right now, but then again, it really doesn’t matter. That’s due, in an enormous measure, to the fact that you can take actions specifically designed to help you get your ex back. If you’re using a smart strategy, you can do what it takes to make him want you back in his life. Does your ex want you back? He will.

Cease from waiting and waiting to try to start your relationship again because you’ve been wondering about how he feels. This is a great time to stop worrying about his current attitude. Instead, focus on the fact that he eventually will want you back.

There’s no better time than now to start the ball rolling toward getting him back. So, stop the worrying and commit yourself to taking action as soon as possible. You can get your ex boyfriend back if you want him. How he happens to be seeing things right at this moment is really all that important in the final analysis. Every second counts. Get up, make up your mind and get your ex back.