How To Get Your Dream Girl and Keep Her For Good

February 17, 2010 | Leave a Comment

Dear Candice,

I’ve been in and out a few relationships. Lately I’ve been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. My dream girl, she is. We never got together but we’re civil to each other until now. We don’t talk or see each other much but when we do, we get along really well. I thought I gave up on her a long time ago ‘cos she started dating some other guy. I think about her more often now. I wanted to tell her how I feel, but was scared to know that she doesn’t feel the same for me, or if she does, the relationship might not last long. So my question is… how to get your dream girl and keep her for good? – Oliver George from Texas

Dear Oliver,

If not all, most of us have someone that we dream of dating, cuddling and spending our time with. But not everyone has the chance to really get to meet and know very well that someone. It’s because most of us didn’t take the chance… often, we fear rejection. How can you possibly get your dream girl doesn’t involve how you treat women, but how you treat yourself, you got to be a real man.

Always look for something greater. Among the positive things about life, whether a situation is brought about by luck, fate or your past actions, you can always evolve to a better life. If you want to keep going, you certainly can, because there are plenty of levels to keep evolving to. Never stop dreaming and achieving for something greater than your life now.

Get rid of your ‘inner wussy’ . More often, inner wussy screws up your chances in getting the girl of your dream. You may need to take some time getting rid of it, because usually, it gets stuck and take away energy from you and going forward can be a lot difficult. Think about what benefits you can get by thinking like a wussy. Perhaps if you grumble about stuff it indicates you do not have to feel accountable for your life, which may feel good in the short-term. Or perhaps if you whine about how awful other people are will give you a slight feeling of being superior to others. Do yourself a favor, and get rid of this stuff. It will never serve you, and women don’t dig it.

Be responsible. If you wish to have a tremendous success with women as well as life, be someone who makes things happen. Be responsible in every thoughts and actions you make. And if you find yourself trying to get away and not taking responsibility for your decisions in life, take a pause and remind yourself that you are the one responsible for your own life. Particularly in those times when it’s fairly easy to put blame on somebody else. If you take responsibility for your very existence, you’ll be a much better person who can create the life you hope for in the process.

Keep in mind that you can only change yourself, not others. Focus on yourself, not women. “You can’t change other people, you can only change yourself…”  is one great adage that we can all can live for. Whenever things go south or you weren’t able to get what you want, your immediate thought is “this other person should change, or else..,”  this is not how you should think. If you really want to be a lot more successful with women, quit from wanting women to change for you, and rather start changing yourself. Once you do, you’ll also change your own point of view and your results.

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Fireworks with Females Review

November 19, 2008 | Leave a Comment

The Fireworks with Females is an ultimate guide for men who are, for some reason, having trouble in getting the girl of their dreams. This book is not intended for those men who are often times labeled as “geeks”. But to those, who at a glance appeared conventional but sorely lacking serious relationships, or worst do not even have the “it” to attract high-value women.

The Fireworks with Females was the result of a collaborative work of a man who happened to see and experience the difference between men who effortlessly gel with women (his college friends), and men who seemingly run a sweet life but, despite the fact that great women are just around the corner, were terrible when it comes to their dating life (his new friends) – Slade Shaw; and a woman who willingly contributed her female perception, based on her years of experience as a professional dating coach – Mirabelle Summers of the website MeetYourSweet.com. Both hungry for knowledge and passionate about the ’science of attraction’.

The Fireworks with Females is not about changing your personality to attract women. It’s not going to force you to morph into someone you are not. This book will help you do a little tweaking on manly characteristics that you’ve already got – but just don’t know it… yet.

The Fireworks with Females includes the following topics:

  • Attraction from the inside out.

  • The knowledge you need to escalate to the next level.

  • How to communicate with women.

  • Female psychology.

  • How to make a relationship last. And a lot more.

What’s good about this book is that it thoroughly explains each and every section. The book literally covers everything, it guides you by the hand – step by step on what to do, what characteristics to tweak, how to act, what to say, what to know about women, and even what not to expect during the process of transformation.

I personally liked the exercises included in this book, what the author called: ‘the actionable attraction challenge’. These exercises will help you – appreciate yourself more, acknowledge and eventually let go of those negative thoughts, believe on what you want to achieve, demonstrate value in front of women, have a life of your own, and develop an ability to open a conversation.

The book is absolutely perfect, very smooth to read. But I think a simple quiz on each section will make it more interactive. This will gauge the reader’s own perspective before reading the section, and see the how does the section affect his perception in life after he read the entire topic.

The Fireworks with Females is definitely worth-reading. The authors’ advice are perfect and timely. The book offers a brand new approach for self improvement, thus giving you the competence to empower your actions towards getting the girl of your dreams and at the same time living your life to its fullest.

And I quote, from the book:

“… there are plenty of very simple things that you can do with yourself and in your life, which, by the very act of doing them, begin to create MAGICAL CHANGES in your life and with the women that you attract…”

The big question is, are you following the right guide? Are these guides can actually create magical changes into your life? If you are man enough to accept what you truly lack and ready to face a new challenge in your life to better your situation when it comes to your relationship and attracting high-value women… the Fireworks with Females is certainly the right guide!

Thoughts to dig in:

Thinking Big – “What you conceive of, you can achieve”.

The Law of Attraction – “What you appreciate, appreciates”.

The author is having a special right now where he is giving a free 6 part mini-course. To see it click here.

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