The Power to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Comes with Responsibility

November 24, 2008 | By Candice | In Advice, Breakup, Relationship 

Dear Candice,

If breakups are optional and I can definitely make it happen if I want to, why do I still need to have a good approach or some sort of a guideline? I also want to get my ex back and I know that he still loves me. Does a simple holler won’t get my ex back? – Pearl (Chicago, Illinois)

Dear Pearl,

Because getting your ex boyfriend back is a serious business. When we are talking about getting your ex back… we’re talking about matters of the human heart and influencing the behavior and decisions of others. You need to use the power to get your ex back responsibly for your own sake. You owe it to yourself to be happy and that means you’ll need to make smart decisions. That’s why it’s important to be sure that you really want your ex boyfriend back before you take action. You don’t want to waste your time, energy and emotion if you’re not wholly convinced you’re doing the right thing.

Break ups are optional. And yes, you have all the power to rebuild your relationship and get your ex back into your life. If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you certainly can do it. If you want to go from breaking up to making up, it’s your call. These are all simple facts. However you may not understand the truth of these statements… yet. Also, you might not yet have the tools and knowledge necessary to re-ignite the flames of your romance’s passion. Nonetheless, the statements are true.

Women think that getting their exes back takes a lot of power. The power to rebuild a relationship is so significant that it comes with a healthy supply of responsibility. I am sure you know the old saying: “With great power comes great responsibility”. Yes, this also applies when you are trying to get your ex back.

Women can decide to put an end to the break ups? And sadly, they often do. While women do have all the right information and approach to get their exes back, they are still afraid to take action and keep asking themselves “what if” questions.

It’s nothing short of cruel to bring your ex back into your life, if you don’t really want him back. No matter what you might think about him at this moment, he’s a human being and he doesn’t deserve to have his heart and soul toyed with for the wrong reasons. As much as you owe yourself to get him back, you also owe it to your ex boyfriend and use that power responsibly.

Many women break up with their guys and feel helpless. Some are lucky enough to realize that they are anything but helpless. They learn how and why they can re-initiate a relationship and discover that getting back together with an ex is well within their ability.

A desire to live a happier and more fulfilled life should be your motivation to rebuild your relationship. Not just because you think the he still loves you or vice versa. Corrupted ends are bound to have a negative impact on the rest of your life, if you behave unethically or irresponsibly. The power does come with some ethical responsibilities that need to be taken seriously.

So, before you take a single step to bring your ex boyfriend back into your life, it is important to consider the responsibility that’s going to accompany your power to rebuild the relationship. If you approach the matter in an ethically upright and correct manner, both of you and he will be much happier in the long run.

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2 Responses to “The Power to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Comes with Responsibility”

  1. Kelly on May 26th, 2009 5:26 am

    I think about my ex boyfriend everyday we ahve been slpit up for 6 years now but we talk all the time. I think i still love him and i cant get him out of my mind, is it possible that he thinks about me the same way if i feel so strongly after all this time??

    please help me

  2. Candice on May 27th, 2009 11:24 am

    Hi Kelly, my new post is for you. Wish you well.

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