You May Not Succeed At First Try But You Can Still Get Him Back

Dear Candice,

I tried to win back my ex. A few weeks after our breakup I realized that breaking up with him is not good for both of us. So I tried to call him but didn’t get any response. So I then decided to send an email. I apologized and told him my intentions to fix the relationship and make up. He sent a note back: “I’m sorry, but no.” I just can’t let this happen, is there another way to win him back? – Karina

Dear Karina,

It might take some time and it will probably take some real effort to win him back. It’s easy to make an effort to get your ex back. However, you may not be able to get him back with a snap of the fingers.

Been through the situation. And it’s really hard to take “no” as an answer. The breakup has left me more than a little upset. But then, someone told me the good news – that I can still bring him back to my side if I really want to do so. Didn’t get it the first try. But then I tried again. Now, we’re back together. So here’s my advice – Try again.

Getting an ex boyfriend back isn’t that rare and it really isn’t that complicated. If you’re prepared to combine a will to take action with a smart plan to rebuild your relationship, it’s completely possible to make things right again.

Some women, after giving their first shot and did not get a good response, ended up waiting. Most of them mourn and they wish something else would happen. It is true that love can find a way, but it needs a little shove if it’s going to do so. Your willingness to take action is that shove. Your inaction will be the number one killer of your potentially wonderful relationship. Don’t just sit on your hands, take a stand for your love instead.

Some people are lucky enough to go from breaking up back to making up in the blink of an eye. Those people, however, are exceptions to the rule. In most cases, getting an ex boyfriend back is going to require some consistent effort and a bit of time. Sometimes, that first short phone call, email or visit is enough to bring you back together with him.

There can be a lot of setbacks. It might feel as though you aren’t making any progress. What are you supposed to do when you are pouring your heart into getting him back and nothing is working?

The general answer, which is applicable to almost every woman trying to get back together with an ex boyfriend is this – keep trying. However, the exact answer to that question will depend on individual circumstances of course.

You weren’t able to pull it off on the first day. You may even won’t succeed at the second or the third. But you will succeed if you’re using the right approach and are willing to keep pushing forward. You don’t need to accept your break up if you know it’s the wrong thing to do. You can keep plugging along until that great day when you finally get your boyfriend back for good. It can be the most challenging days of your life, but definitely worth trying.

If your relationship is meaningful to you and you believe that true love is at stake, you owe it to yourself to keep trying. You can’t just quit if you know in your heart that the two of you are meant to be with one another. You need to push past set backs and keep your eye on the goal of getting your boyfriend back.